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Help... [Monday, January 16th, 2006 @ 1:12am]

adelviento
[ mood | anxious ]

Tonight was very difficult for me. I seem to be getting worse and worse, day by day. Tonight it seemed there were constant reminders of my struggles with erotophobia. I went to watch my father bowl with his team and everywhere I turned there were crotches... it made me feel sick to my stomach and I wanted to scream, and knowing I couldn't scream, I wanted to cut myself, instead. At the time it seemed like it was the only way I could possibly deal with it, but even that can't be done in the middle of a bowling alley. Then the tears started to come to my eyes and I dealt with surpressing those, as well.
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Male Bisexuals [Monday, January 16th, 2006 @ 12:45am]

adelviento
Oh, wouldn't I love to have MEMBERS to discuss this article with.

Title: The Mainstream Bisexual-- Heteroromantic and homoplatonic

People continue to lump sexual, romantic, and even platonic feelings together under "sexual" orientation, when the reality is that each of the three is an independent variable. Most males, in particular, have no problem separating sex from romance. For example, when a straight male says, "I'm not gay. I just like male oral sex," what he means is that he is heteroromantic (straight in the romantic sense). In short, romantic orientation is what people usually mean by "sexual" orientation.

I believe that about 70% of the male population is biSEXUAL, heteroromantic, and homoplatonic (sharing homosocial bonds with guys, as straight males love to do). It is this innate biSEXuality in them that causes straight-identified males to fear anything gay. Furthermore, about 13.5% of the population is either exclusively or overwhelmingly homoromantic (gay in the romantic sense). (more...)
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Men? Multiple Orgasms? Get out. [Thursday, January 12th, 2006 @ 4:04pm]

adelviento
[ mood | accomplished ]

Title: Male Multiple Orgasms

The basic approach that The Multi-Orgasmic Man takes is to teach that orgasm and ejaculation are, for men, two separate physiological processes. Thus men may experience orgasm, and in fact experience several orgasms, either before ejaculation or completely in lieu of ejaculation. This is solid information, and male multiple orgasms of this nature have been observed time and time again by sex researchers. (more...)

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All About My Vagina [Tuesday, January 10th, 2006 @ 6:03pm]

adelviento
All About My Vagina is an amazing website that I came across a while ago. It's got a lot of interesting information and I really think it promotes healthy appreciation of having a vagina in an open and honest way. It's a really good read when you're flat in the middle of PMS and you need an emotional pick-up to feel less hateful of the way your body works, as a woman.
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The Female Orgasm [Tuesday, January 10th, 2006 @ 5:39pm]

adelviento
Title: The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm
By: Anne Koedt
Date: 1970, Classic

Whenever female orgasm and frigidity are discussed, a false distinction is made between the vaginal and the clitoral orgasm. Frigidity has generally been defined by men as the failure of women to have vaginal orgasms. Actually the vagina is not a highly sensitive area and is not constructed to achieve orgasm. It is the clitoris which is the center of sexual sensitivity and which is the female equivalent of the penis.

I think this explains a great many things: First of all, the fact that the so-called frigidity rate among women is phenomenally high. Rather than tracing female frigidity to the false assumptions about female anatomy, our "experts" have declared frigidity a psychological problem of women. (more...)
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The Shame of Sexuality [Tuesday, January 10th, 2006 @ 5:18pm]

adelviento
[Written August 14th, 2005]

I've been looking through old photograph albums for the last hour or so, going through pictures of myself when I was little and remembering a lot of things. One thing, however, I do not remember, is being a streaker. I remember that my younger sister was very keen on stripping off everything and running around with her little bare bottom hanging out for all to see, but that I was quite fond of keeping my clothes on. However, that theory has now been shattered. I've just come across a picture of myself, oh, around eight years old, just fresh out of a bath with soggy hair plastered to the sides of my face, a big smile on my lips, and the towel gleefully flung out at my sides. I look like a a streaker in training, honestly: a future streaker of America, I was. more...Collapse )
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The Male Orgasm [Tuesday, January 10th, 2006 @ 4:31pm]

adelviento
[ mood | curious ]

Title: Is she having all the fun?

Orgasms are just so unfair, says Jonathan Margolis. Compared with a woman’s physical fireworks, a man’s big moment is a bit of a damp squib

Considering the dedication with which we men pursue orgasms, it’s odd that we almost never try to describe them. Women, supposedly less orgasm-obsessed, give long, lyrical descriptions of their whole-body orgasmic experiences. Yet, for thousands of years, when even sensitive, articulate male writers have reached the sticky bits of their sex scenes, they weirdly change their point of view and start going on about the ecstatic vaginal fireworks show that they imagine exploding within their lover’s loins.

What is going on here? By far the most likely explanation for men’s reticence is that, frankly, the male orgasm is rubbish. Nature gave us the desire to ejaculate with tedious regularity, yet she also ensured that the experience, though addictive, would be a bit piffling (more...)

If I had members, I'd ask them to comment with their opinions about this article. Heh. :) All I'll say is that it was a fascinating read for me, and I'm curious to have some confirmation from another male as to the accuracy of it. :)

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Introduction [Tuesday, January 10th, 2006 @ 9:18am]

adelviento
[ mood | hopeful ]

Hi, I'm the mod/founder of this community, adelviento. I'm 25 years old and have been in a committed relationship for over a year now.

I think that if I'm going to expect other people that join this community to be honest and open about their sexuality, I need to be the first to disclose. For a long time I have had a lot of sexual confusion. I have shifted between phases of using sex as a means to keep men in my life, to feeling revulsion at the thought of having sex, to feeling cheap and used, to not even wanting to be a woman anymore. Often I've felt dirty and fantasized about being sex-neutral, without any internal or external sex organs. This all comes and goes.

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I created this community because this was something I couldn't write about in my journal. I wanted to be able to express myself and share my thoughts and feelings about this issue with others that understand what I am going through. I hope that this community will grow, nourish itself, and help many. :)

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3 Quotes, 1 Article [Tuesday, January 10th, 2006 @ 8:43am]

adelviento
[ mood | accomplished ]

Okay, let's start this thing rolling with some funnies. :)

"If homosexuality is a disease, let's all call in queer to work: "Hello. Can't work today, still queer." Robin Tyler

"You could move." Abigail Van Buren, "Dear Abby," in response to a reader who complained that a gay couple was moving in across the street and wanted to know what he could do to improve the quality of the neighborhood

"God gave men both a penis and a brain, but unfortunately not enough blood supply to run both at the same time." Robin Williams

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